How can I update my 60’s pecky cypress fireplace and beams?

If you did not like the white wash paint it a different color to go with your decor

Have you thought about re-staining it to a darker color to contrast your walls and make it your focal point?

I love the look of it as is. If you are looking to change it up a bit you could do a light coat of a darker stain or gel stain to create more contrast. I would do that last - try a dry brush paint on the brick first. This may give you the contrast that makes this beautiful wood pop!

You can make it over with airstone-https://www.hometalk.com/diy/living-room/fireplaces-mantels/diy-fireplace-surround-using-airstone-6789843?r=1

WE PAINTED OUR BRICK WHITE AND LEFT THE MANTLE WILL RESTAIN IT LATER

WHAT ABOUT TESTING AREA W JUST WHITE PAINT..NO WHITE WASH....I KNOW SOME PEOPLE PUT A GLAZE ON IT TOO....THAT MAY GIVE YOU THE POP YOU WERE LOOKING FOR ......I HAVE A WHOLE STAIRWAY WITH PECKY CYPRESS AND WAS JUST LOOKING FOR IDEAS TOO BECAUSE THE STAIRWAY IS SO DARK....I LIKE THE WHITE WASH BUT WILL TRY FULL PAINT TOO

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/193865958945811964/ THIS IS A LIMEWASH

Try giving the bricks a limed look! or use a dark stain on the fire surround and above the mantle white as the other cladding is and add a large picture or Mirror.

You could always go for grey. Consult the family first!

Hello, how about painting it a nice shade of grey? Grey is my got to for sure! Hope these inspire you

https://www.bhg.com/decorating/fireplace/styles/before-and-after-fireplaces/

https://www.kylieminteriors.ca/how-to-update-your-fireplace-5-easy-ideas/

Use a Large Mirror or Bright coloured Modern Picture to cover the Chimney breast!