Add some red accents to your kitchen to bring the red into it. Then bring some gray into your laundry room.
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Add a few other red items in the kitchen, ie vintage red clock, vintage red scale, red table cloth etc... it only takes a few other items added in red to make it look like it's a fun accent color.
Pictures of the room would be really helpful. Red and gray are awesome complementary colors so ideas above are a good start. I would love to see what the room looks like to add any additional ideas.
Do you like the red well enough to want to incorporate the machine into the rest of the decor? or would you rather hide it, thus hiding the red color?