Hi Jane, here is a DIY hope it helps! https://www.hometalk.com/2524453/age-or-stain-wood-with-vinegar

Age or Stain Wood With Vinegar

We did this! It's gorgeous - here's how: https://www.frugalfamilytimes.com/2018/01/how-to-make-easy-reclaimed-wood-grey-brown-stain-finish.html

https://www.hometalk.com/29750004/aging-and-staining-wood-with-steel-wool-and-vinegar?expand_all_questions=1#!

Aging and Weathering Wood Using Steel Wool and Vinegar

Hi Jane, here is a quick video with the recipe you are looking for hope you get some good information out of it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuioNBz0mII

https://www.hometalk.com/27685232/rustic-picture-ledges-with-homemade-steel-wool-and-vinegar-stain?expand_all_questions=1

Rustic Picture Ledges With Homemade Steel Wool and Vinegar Stain

Hi ! There is a much easier way to age wood !!! First band it up a bit , using whatever you have on hand ... A hammer , or meat terrorized ... Then you can take a screwdriver and put a few scratches on the wood . I then took a small nail and using a hammer just lightly tapped it as I moved it around in a little cluster and a few spots on their own , to replicate work unless ! As for the aging , this is the easy part ! But a wood ager / accelerator made by Varathane called weathered wood accelerator !!! All you do is brush it on and let it dry , then decide if you need another coat . It dries fast and no fumes , as well as easy wash up ! I posted a tutorial on this site called " Quick & Easy Way to Make a Distressed Wood Board " you can see my step by step process .

Hi ! Here are some pictures from my tutorial . You can get it in a grayish tone or brown tone .

Please visit my blog on this topic! I offer 7 different ways to age/distress wood.

https://www.unexpectedelegance.com/7-ways-age-distress-furniture/

https://www.hometalk.com/4112873/how-to-age-wood-fast-diy

How to Age Wood (almost Instantly)