Can we take a load bearing wall down between the kitchen and living?

wow, sounds like a question for an engineer. You don't want to take any chances with that. I think you should consult a professional.

this video should give you advice without consulting a professional right now.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ws2QykJ0z3c

Before you do anything, you need to check current building code, a permit and need the assessment of a structural engineer. Sometimes a steel header can be installed to avoid using posts, but it depends on how the home was constructed and how long the run is. Not a homeowner DIY under any circumstances, you need a licensed contractor.

I would advise you to consult a Structural Engineer before removing ANY walls.... HomeAdvisor.com or Angieslist.com can help you find a referral and reference verified one.... you may be able to use a larger beam (laminated or steel) and not have to have posts... the structural engineer will give you the best information and advice... and it may save your home from expensive damage.

Yes you generally can it is quit expensive to do though. A good general contractor will.be able to assist in helping you decide if it is possible that the wall be removed sometimes it cant.

You can take it down but you must build temporary supports to hold the house up while removing the wall and installing the beam. As for the steel posts, you have to be sure that they are able to carry the load the house will put on them (some can hold more than others). You can install the beam without the posts if you have the right kind and the proper supports for it. I would really suggest getting a few professional opinions.

Consult an expert , too dangerous to do it without a professional opinion.

You need a structural engineer to determine the size of beam needed to carry the load. You can't just put something up and hope for the best. Also you need to check building codes, permits, and inspections.

Hello there,

Get an Construction Engineer to calculate the right size RSJ for the Job, You will need "Accro" Props too to hold the ceiling up so you can insert the RS This is really a job for a Builder!.

no one here can answer that. I find a contractor who can give you advice